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The Queen's Code by Alison A. Armstrong, Author of Keys to the Kingdom and Making Sense of Men

by Alison A. Armstrong

Available in E-Book, Audiobook, and Audiobook + Journey

A romantic novel, The Queen's Code reveals the secrets to communicating with men and a code of honor that will change your relationship to yourself and men forever.

It's fun. It's fascinating. And it will change your life.

"Every woman, married or in a romantic relationship or not, should have this information. There is no chance for relationships with men if we do not change our paradigm. This is the most powerful paradigm shifter I have ever found in this regard." — Monica G.

Transform the Way you See Men and Women

  • Did you know that the words that most motivate men to act are the same words women most avoid using?
  • That what women naturally do best, often brings out the worst in men?
  • That most women unconsciously cause men to treat them the opposite of what most women really want?
    • Competing instead of cherishing
    • Fearing instead of trusting
    • Treating with disdain instead of respect
    • Keeping their distance instead of seeking emotional intimacy.

Imagine learning the words that speak to the Heart of a man and move him to act on another's behalf... Imagine that a simple shift in perception causes a dramatic increase in love, admiration and fulfillment. This can become your reality.

"Heart opening and life-changing"

Excerpted from review by Natural-ways on Amazon in the United Kingdom on 13 July 2020

Both this, and her preceding book 'Keys to the Kingdom' (which needs to be read FIRST), are beyond value. Gentle, practical, inclusive and deeply wise, they give men and women back to themselves by helping us to understand the inherent gifts of our sex and that of the opposite sex, and by teaching us how to navigate the differences and communicate effectively within them. Men have become wise and beautiful beings in my eyes, towering sources of strength and kindness who give deep structure to life; women have become magical and mysterious weavers of beauty and meaning, attending and receiving life in ways that enable its warm and wondrous flourishing.

I feel grateful for the wisdom of Alison Armstrong who holds both the masculine and feminine in such regard and delivers so much wisdom with so much kindness and humour. The book is written with true skill and mastery and is utterly enjoyable... it is a book to cherish. If you are open to it, it will open you, your heart, your life.

"The truth about men unfolding in every turn of the page"

Excerpted from review by Win S. on Amazon in the United States on January 18, 2024

From my perspective being male, I found the information presented by Alison in her book The Queen's Code to be on point. I don't recall there being anything I found objectional. I loved the way the storyline and the information flowed.

In my own life, I have tried to convey some of the same sentiments, definitely not as articulate or concise as Alison presents them here.

Three things I truly appreciate about this book: 1. It helped me to clearly understand what I was feeling. 2. It helped me to clarify the ideas I wanted to convey. 3. The Queen's code speaks to an issue long plaguing male/female relationships and offered a solution...

Take aways:

  • Building up a man gets the woman what she needs faster and more often than tearing him down.
  • Emasculating men never motivates them...

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"When I meet people having trouble in relationships, I talk about the Queen's Code book. With women leading competitive lives, it is more and more difficult for them to be vulnerable and safe while admiring men. The Queen's Code helps women see their preconceptions of men and how that has been working. They learn men are not misbehaving and truly want to provide everything a woman wants." — Scott G.

"I loved the book and have read it four times!! I have also led three book clubs that have generated fabulous conversation between men and women!! In addition, I gave a copy to every female in my family, including nieces and grandnieces!! What I loved most about the book is the wealth of wisdom and knowledge that is shared in a lovely story line. At times it was as if I could hear Alison teaching me. What especially excited me was the information that filters up subtly. So, with each read there is more and more information. It is a must read for all women and men." — Conchita B., Illinois, USA