Dating in the Dark?

You might be, IF:

  • You struggle with a lack of chemistry
  • You find yourself at cross-purposes
  • It's hard to connect meaningfully
  • You get stuck dating when you really want a relationship
  • You're diminished by the whole dang ordeal!

Alison illuminates what we're "in the dark" about that causes the process of dating to be a struggle or a waste of time.


You Will Learn:

  • WHAT are the CAUSES and EFFECTS of Chemistry
  • WHY men and women "date" — and how our purposes conflict
  • WHEN to CONNECT in a way that matters
  • THE biggest differences between "dating" and a relationship
  • HOW to use the dating process to Enhance your sense of Self



Are you Dating in the Dark?

Zoom Webinar Recording

1 hour 50 minutes

30 days of Access

Dating with Distinctions

Dating can be a Life-Draining, Fruitless Ordeal


Because we're mostly in the dark, without distinctions in:

  • How and When relationships actually "progress"
    • Don't be fooled and don't blow it
  • What to pay attention to BEFORE you take your clothes off
    • Don't let "hot" make you feel NOT
  • What most people need to be fulfilled romantically
    • Quickly sort out the folks that will never provide it
  • How to really CONNECT in ways that shape the future
    • Instead of getting stuck in the past - theirs or yours
  • What to DO - and When - to make Dating Apps work for YOU
    • How Dating Apps create Illusions of both scarcity and abundance
    • Escape the "Messaging Zone" faster and make the process more fruitful!


DATING WITH DISTINCTIONS

Zoom Webinar Recordings + Bonus Q&A

6 hours 40 minutes

30 days of Access




Online Video Program ~ 30-Days Access

8 hours & 24 minutes

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"In supporting the men and women of the Smart Singles Intensive, I've developed an urgent need to prevent the needless suffering I've witnessed ~ for everyone! Too much time, energy and heartache is being wasted due to misconceptions, a lack of self-knowledge, fear of reactions to self-honoring, confusion about our real needs versus cultural norms, and normal ignorance about the tremendous instinctual impulses mucking things up beneath the surface." — Alison Armstrong




Limited Access Frequently Asked Questions


Why is there Limited Access for Online Programs? Why can’t I have them “forever”?

  • Our videos are provided by an independent service and we pay for every second they are watched.
  • Some people prefer to consume the information in a concentrated period of time. While others prefer to take more time and even rewind and review the material.
  • To anticipate how much time our students might watch our videos, we'd have to charge more for everyone. To maintain our values of affordability and accessibility, we provide our Online Programs with the recommended time frame, plus the ability to get more time when you want to use it.

(While the ideal of "lifetime" access may sound good, it really means the lifetime of the organization ~ not yours! We choose transparency and options)

How much is more time? How do I get it?

  • More time is only $9 for 15 more days of access.
  • Look for “🕓 Get More Time” in your list of programs in “Access Online Programs”
  • Your additional time begins after your initial access period has expired, no matter when you purchase it. You can even plan ahead.