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Own Your Ultimatums

ULTIMATUM: a final, uncompromising demand or set of terms issued by a party to a dispute, the rejection of which may lead to a severance of relations or to the use of force; a final proposal or statement of conditions.



What if Ultimatums aren't the problem? After all, everyone has at least one, in every area of life...

Something you can't live with ~ or can't live without ~ but probably have been anyway!


in her NEW eCourse!

Only $49


  • Access 2+ hours of stimulating, self-paced Online Videos for 30 days
  • Utilize prompts to expand upon the value of the information in the videos and create a bridge to implementation in your life
  • Join Alison for transformational exercises* in your choice of a 90-minute Bonus Live Zoom Session. *You'll be able to choose a date and time after you've completed the first 4 Sessions of the eCourse.

Upcoming Zoom Session dates/times:




Own Your Ultimatums Package $49.00
Own Your Ultimatums Live Interaction Plus
Own Your Ultimatums eCourse



Ultimatums can create more relationship satisfaction!

"It sure did!!! We are back in love. I had signed up for the live webinar, and now we are listening together, studying the material. It's awesome! We were really in trouble and this gave me the hope, the tools, and I released a lot of previous upset, just like that. Thank you Thank you Thank you!!" ~ Manuela, The Netherlands




You Will Learn:

  • WHY unspoken ultimatums always undermine love and passion
  • HOW the fear of ultimatums creates more problems than ultimatums themselves
  • WHY both women and men present ultimatums at the worst time
  • WHY lack of commitment causes costly "false hope"
  • HOW to articulate your ultimatums so they are clear and actionable
  • HOW both beliefs about "deserving" and "not deserving" will keep you from getting what you need
  • HOW to learn another person's ultimatums before surprise, betrayal and fear of loss cloud your judgment
  • WHEN and HOW is the best way to present your ultimatums
  • WHY ultimatums ultimately serve people committed to respecting both themselves and others.

Surprising benefits will come from Participating in a Bonus Live Interaction PLUS Webinar with Alison!


By Attending Live, you'll have a Chance to Experience

  • Connecting with men and women who desire more honesty and authenticity
  • Stating your "deal-breakers" without being defensive, aggressive or emotional
  • Listening like a "treasure hunt" ~ so you can hear ultimatums easily and early
  • Interacting with Alison directly!

Need Help or Have Questions?

Talk to us directly and get answers to your questions: Toll Free: 800.418.9924 ext. 875 (International: 626.389.4927) or email: Consultant@understandmen.com

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