The Smart Singles Intensive

Resources Available Upon Registration

Start Learning Immediately

  • Get a head start on learning and practicing the principles of being a Smart Single by watching Are You Dating in the Dark + Dating with Distinctions ~ right away!
  • You're encouraged to utilize the Online Courses, Bonus Live Interactions with Alison, and the other eBook and Audio resources as much as your schedule permits.
  • Watching, listening and reviewing in the context of the results you've stated in your Intensive application will have you on your way even before classroom sessions begin.
  • For Intensive Participants only, specific recommendations for the order and focus of using the Intensive Resources will be provided from Alison in your Private Conversation. Appointments will be available with Alison beginning January 13. Intensive registrants will receive the scheduling link here and by email beginning December 16.

2027 Classroom Schedule and Preparation Instructions

All classroom sessions take place live on Zoom, Wednesdays, 6:00 - 7:15 PM Pacific Time.


Session Date Recording Available by Wednesdays When BEFORE watching the SSI classroom video, PREPARE by Watching, Listening AND Completing the Exercises BEFORE SESSION FOCUSES ON
1 March 31 April 2 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH Extreme Freedom through Session 5 (2.25 video hrs) Meet fellow Intensive participants. How to integrate Intensive Resources, Preparation & Classrooms. Using your "What's True" lists to generate freedom; and Dating with Distinctions to track your progress.
April 7 No class Prepare for Next Session by starting on LUX (8 video hrs)
2 April 14 April 16 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH the LUX Online Course to the end. Note Questions, especially about "no such thing as relationships" and Being, Listening with and Speaking for. Access to Extraordinary Relationships through Honoring Yourself then others. Romantic Interactions = Workouts to Build Muscle
April 21 No class Prepare for Next Session by starting on In Sync (4.5 video hrs)
3 April 28 April 30 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH In Sync with the Opposite Sex through the end. Think about your Purpose and "Deal-Breakers". An ongoing Purpose for Romance. Giving and Getting; Living With and Living Without (Deal-Breakers). Save information for July 7 prep.
May 5 No class Prepare for Next Session by starting Understanding Women (11 video hrs)
4 May 12 May 14 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH Understanding Women to the end and apply to yourself and others. Honoring Yourself First in Hunting and Gathering modes. Transforming criticism into clarity.
May 19 No class Prepare for Next Session by starting Understanding Men (15 video hrs)
5 May 26 May 28 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH Understanding Men through the end. Notice "Misbehaving" in yourself and others. Creating awareness of Emasculating and Objectifying Yourself and Others and the effects on sorting and dating.
June 2 No class Prepare for Next Session by working on Extreme Freedom, especially if you haven't started (4 video hrs total)
6 June 9 June 11 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH Extreme Freedom through Session 6 and beyond. Practice the healing modalities and keep adding to your "What's True" lists. Using "Restoration Requires" document before and after romantic interactions. Utilizing the healing modalities for restoration.
June 16 No class No class. Prepare for Next Week by applying Extreme Freedom. Start reviewing Dating with Distinctions. (8.5 video hrs)
7 June 23 June 25 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT RE-WATCH Dating with Distinctions (and Are You Dating in the Dark? if you need a "too much chemistry" refresher) Prepare clarification and implementation questions about this material. And notice what you've already been implementing.
June 30 No class Prepare for Next Session by starting Understanding Love & Commitment (15 video hrs. total)
8 July 7 July 9 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH Understanding Love & Commitment through the end. Do "The Right Person for You" exercises as well as you can. Merging with information from In Sync, arriving at stand alone "Requirements" and refine "Ultamatums"
July 14 No class Prepare for Next Session by starting Critical Missing Pieces
9 July 21 July 23 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH Critical Missing Pieces. Notice how you respond to Power-More and Power-Less. Think about your romantic "Short Lists". Update your Minimum Requirements and BE List.(3 & 1/2 hours) Great "Dates"- Self-honoring, Self-Expressed, Self-Confident. Committing to Clues; Receiving/Providing: What, How, When
July 28 No class Prepare for Next Session by watching Your Hidden Dominant Drivers (3.5 video hrs) and listening to the Appreciation Equation (2 audio hrs)
10 August 4 August 6 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH Your Hidden Dominant Drivers and discern your WHYs. LISTEN to Appreciation Equation, complete Handouts (+). Apply your Appreciation Currencies to your Dominant Drivers. Dominant Drivers applied to honoring what's critical as a Smart self-aware Single. Connect the Appreciation Equation, Currencies & Exchange Rates to your Dominant Drivers
August 11 No class Prepare for Next Session by watching Own Your Ultimatums through the end (2.5 video hrs)
11 August 18 August 20 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT WATCH Own Your Ultimatums. Continue to refine your "Lists" so they become beautiful and compelling to you. Presenting Ultimatums. Being consistent with others and trustworthy to yourself
August 25 No class Prepare for the Celebration of Your Accomplishments
12 September 1 September 3 6:00 - 7:15 PM PT Complete the "Celebrate Your Accomplishments" assignment and identify the most important ones to emphasize. Burning the bridges to who you were before Smart Singles


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